Almost - pre-Camino jitters
Jilek, Glenn
Glenn.JilekaFHWA.DOT.GOV
Fri Sep 19 13:42:42 PDT 2003
I have not experienced a true panic attack, but have both a close friend and a relative who experience this from time to time. They have a difficult time just leaving their homes when an attack comes. As extreme as Doug's experience was, I don't think that it was a true panic attack as I have observed them. I also appreciate his frank discussion of his experience...I think it took a lot of courage to recount that experience.
I am not planning on doing the Camino until May 2005 (this will coincide with a major life change as I move from a comfortable, secure, predictable work situation to something totally new and different), but I can imagine that I will have a full range of emotions: anticipation, anxiety, excitement, worry, etc..
I recently wrote a Camino friend about a childhood experience of tracing the progress of fairy tale heroes across an unknown and dangerous land (I remember the edge of the map had a serpent and the words "Here Be Dragons". When I was young, I never thought of the knights and other heroes having fear...they just did what they had to do to arrive at their goal and find treasure, love, and/or some truth. But now I know they were scared too. I have learned that every time I get that feeling of anxiety, it means that there is something valuable ahead for me, and I just have to get through it (slay the dragon so to speak), "to win the prize". Looking back on my life, I always gained by fording ahead through fear, and regret only the times that I couldn't conjure enough courage to make it because I can see now what was lost. I guess the way I look at it at this point is that when I experience fear, I don't take it as a "red traffic light" and stop...but more like the "yellow t!
raffic light" and proceed with caution.
In Nancy Frey's book (I believe) there is a picture of part of the meseta...a wide open expanse of land stretching to the horizon. As much as I want to do the Camino, I felt anxious just looking at that picture. I felt like the landscape could just swallow me up...and I could almost picture the symbol on that fairy tale map "Here Be Dragons!". But I'm going to do it, one step at a time.
I appreciate all of the messages and knowledge that everyone shares here!
Glenn
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