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<br><i>wisdom's aspirant wrote:</i>
<blockquote TYPE=CITE><i>Just out of curiosity, are people able to say
why they decided to walk the</i>
<br><i>Camino and how their experience related to their purpose?</i></blockquote>
My Miracle on Cebreiro
<p>When I started my pilgrimage, I wrote in my diary that I wanted to accomplish
two things on the Camino, besides the fact that I was walking 780 kms.
Firstly, I wanted to find my purpose in life. To gain an understanding
of myself and my value to the world at large. Having spent 20 years in
a marriage that broke up, 17 years as a mother to 3 daughters, 20 years
at Bell Canada and numerous other life events, I had lost the sense of
who I was. (I think it is affectionately called mid-life crisis!)
<p>Second, I wanted to have a love affair with myself. Really, I had forgotten
how to love myself, feeling that I had given so much love away I didn't
have any left for myself. Each day on the Camino, I would practice what
it might be like to love myself. I would walk tall, opening my heart to
the love of the universe. I would pretend that I loved myself imagining
how one might look after themselves, if they were in love. When I met people,
I tried to take their love to make it a part of me or sometimes I
would do nothing, just to be aware of noticing love.
<p>I would stop and admire the scenery along the way, again taking love
from nature and the surroundings. Soon this became a discipline I focussed
on all the time; to move from taking love to becoming love. Over a period
of 24 days I continued this practice each morning as I started the day
while I was alone.
<p>When I was in Los Arcos, around the 6th day of walking, I went
out for dinner in the evening with a group of pilgrims. During dinner,
I asked if anyone knew why there were stone piles or rock cairns along
the roadside. It was the German pilgrim who told me his version of the
story of the "sorrow stones". He said that if you pick up a stone
and then put some of your sorrow into the stone, when you place it
down you will leave your sorrow behind. Well, this idea started a
<br>new chapter in my pilgrimage. I had to make room in my heart for love
and soon learned that if I could leave some of my sorrow behind, I could
create more space for love. Near the end of the pilgrimage, I really wondered
to myself if I had any sorrow left at all. Everyday I left sorrow behind
but not just my own sorrow, I left my children's sorrow, my mother's, my
sisters and many friends sorrow on the Camino. When I met pilgrims along
the way who told me of their sorrow, I would secretly pick up a stone for
them and leave their sorrow behind as well. It was my gift to them. Long
after I returned home from Santiago, I fully realized the power of leaving
sorrow behind to open oneself for love and compassion.
<p>On the 24th day, in Villa Franca I met up with the German pilgrim again.
We talked all evening sharing stories of our experiences. It was through
the conversation with him that I realized that I had in fact found my purpose
in life: to inspire others to think differently about their lives, to be
more loving. The next day we walked up Cebreiro, finishing the grueling
climb at 7:30PM at night in darkness. Little did I know that it would be
the following day that I was to experience the profound outcome of the
discipline of learning self love.
<p>Again, I walked with the German pilgrim that day which was unusual for
me because I preferred to walk alone. Often we would stop and admire the
mighty mountains of Galicia, as it poured rain on us all day. It was now
mid day and I had been practicing self love all morning, even as we talked.
Once again, we stopped to take in the view of the mountains, this time
my body was physically stirred. As I stood there with my heart open, all
the love of the universe came to me in a rush. I called out with a pained
moan and almost fell over, my knees buckling against the power of this
love. I became afraid and in my fear quickly decided to get rid of the
love in an effort to gain control. So, I moved the love away from me passing
it to the closest person, the only person there, the German pilgrim. Almost
instantly it came back to me with the same force. This time, although in
fear, I surrendered to the Camino and it's ways. At that moment, I openly
accepted this love and to my surprise, instead of becoming weaker
because I gave in or surrendered, I became filled with absolute love and
incredible inner strength. It was like a beam of light breaking through
darkness.
<p>Through this experience I discovered that for most of my life I had
tried to give love and then take it back, as two distinct actions. What
I learned on Cebriero is that love is flowing, constantly alive throughout
the universe; not something to give and take. I also learned that I became
love through surrender. I learned that I am love and I love myself.
<p>I am forever grateful for "my miracle" on Cebriero.
<p>Love,
<br>Sue
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